Best Possible Self Exercise: Boost Happiness & Motivation

How the Best Possible Self Exercise Boosts Happiness

In Episode 8 of the Science of Happiness Podcast, researchers explore a powerful positive psychology technique called the Best Possible Self exercise - a research-backed method to increase optimism and life satisfaction.

What Is the Best Possible Self Exercise?

The practice involves:
- Spending 15 minutes daily for 2 weeks
- Writing in detail about your ideal future self
- Focusing on key life domains: relationships, career, health
- Imagining a future without limitations or obstacles

"The idea is to write out all the things you want without judgment... if there were no barriers" - Adizah Eghan, podcast guest

Proven Benefits of This Happiness Practice

Research by psychologist Laura King shows this exercise:
1. Immediately increases positive emotions
2. Creates lasting happiness boosts (effects remain weeks later)
3. Enhances motivation to pursue goals
4. Helps clarify life priorities

How to Practice Best Possible Self Visualization

Follow these steps:

1. Set aside 15 minutes in a quiet space
2. Imagine your life 5-10 years in the future
3. Write about these key areas:
   • Relationships and social connections
   • Career and professional achievements
   • Health and personal wellbeing
4. Be specific with details
5. Avoid present-day limitations - dream big
6. Repeat daily for at least two weeks

Overcoming Common Challenges

Many people experience:
- Anxiety about gaps between current and ideal self
- Perfectionism tendencies
- Difficulty imagining beyond current constraints

"It's important to have positive idealized images but not to the point where not realizing them makes you feel like a failure" - Dr. Serena Chen, UC Berkeley

Special Considerations for Different Groups

Research shows:
- Young professionals often neglect relationships in favor of career
- Underrepresented groups may need additional support bridging their current identity with future aspirations
- First-generation students benefit from concrete pathway information (like financial aid options)

Start Your Best Possible Self Practice Today

This simple writing exercise takes just 15 minutes but can create meaningful shifts in:
- Happiness levels
- Life direction clarity
- Motivation to pursue goals

For complete instructions, visit Greater Good in Action at ggia.berkeley.edu