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Learn how to use distractions to improve focus with Toby Sola's concentration algorithm meditation technique for deeper mindfulness.
It might seem surprising, but intentionally tuning into distractions can actually sharpen your focus. Meditation teacher Toby Sola introduces a powerful technique called the "concentration algorithm" - a structured approach to identify and work with your natural attention patterns.
This mindfulness practice helps you:
1. Identify your primary distraction type
2. Use it as a focal point
3. Achieve deeper concentration
Note: This meditation includes intentional silent pauses. Feel free to pause the recording if you need more time.
Ask yourself:
- What pulled my attention most?
- Which category does it fit?
Common distraction categories:
- Sound (external noises)
- Physical sensations (non-breath)
- Mental images
- Internal dialogue
- Emotional sensations
When focused distractions fade:
- Shift to corresponding "restful state"
- Examples:
- Sound → silence
- Mental talk → mental quiet
- Images → blank mental screen
The concentration algorithm:
- Reveals your mind's natural tendencies
- Provides structure for deeper focus
- Turns distractions into concentration tools
Pro Tip: The easiest focus object for you is likely your optimal meditation anchor. Use this insight to enhance future practice.
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