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Learn how mindfulness meditation can help identify and interrupt implicit bias for racial healing and equity. Practical steps and guided practices included.
In my first year as a teacher, I looked around my classroom and noticed:
- Mostly Black and Brown students
- A few White students
- One Asian student
My unconscious bias immediately surfaced:
- I assumed the Asian student wouldn’t need help
- I felt neutral about White students (the system favored them)
- I expected Black/Brown students to need more attention
This bias stemmed from my own schooling experiences where Asian peers excelled academically. Though well-intentioned, these assumptions perpetuated harmful stereotypes.
Talking About Bias is Uncomfortable
No One is Exempt From Bias
Bias Causes Harm Regardless of Intent
Mindfulness meditation creates:
- Dual awareness of inner thoughts and outer actions
- Emotional regulation to pause before reacting
- Self-compassion to process shame productively
Meditation affects three key brain areas:
Amygdala (threat response):
Insula (empathy center):
Prefrontal Cortex (decision-making):
Reflect on:
- Early racialized experiences
- Family attitudes about race
- Societal messages you internalized
When bias surfaces:
1. Stop automatic reactions
2. Breathe to create space
3. Notice what arises
4. Reflect on origins
5. Respond skillfully
Bias interruption is lifelong work requiring:
- Regular mindfulness practice
- Courageous self-reflection
- Community support
By combining meditation with racial equity work, we can transform both ourselves and systems.
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