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Body Check-In Practice for Better Money Conversations

Learn how a simple body check-in practice can improve financial discussions and emotional awareness. Perfect for couples and business partners.

BARI TESSLER
Aug 6, 2025
2 min read(276 words)
Body Check-In Practice for Better Money Conversations

How a Body Check-In Improves Financial Conversations

Money discussions often trigger stress, anxiety, or tension. A simple body check-in practice helps create emotional awareness before financial interactions. This mindfulness technique works for:

  • Couples discussing budgets
  • Family money talks
  • Business financial negotiations
  • Personal spending decisions

What Is a Body Check-In?

A body check-in is a mindfulness practice where you:

  1. Pause before financial interactions
  2. Scan your physical sensations
  3. Acknowledge emotions
  4. Observe breathing patterns
  5. Notice thoughts without judgment

Step-by-Step Body Check-In for Money Talks

Follow this simple 5-step practice before financial discussions:

1. Find Your Physical Position

  • Notice how you're sitting/standing
  • Check if your feet are grounded
  • Observe posture alignment

2. Scan for Body Sensations

  • Identify areas of tension (shoulders, jaw, chest)
  • Notice fluttering or tightness
  • Observe movement or stillness

3. Acknowledge Emotional State

  • Name what you're feeling (anger, anxiety, numbness)
  • Welcome all emotions without judgment
  • Notice money-specific triggers

4. Observe Your Breathing

  • Check if breath is shallow or deep
  • Notice if breathing is chest-focused or belly-deep

5. Notice Passing Thoughts

  • Observe money-related thoughts
  • Watch mental narratives without attachment

Extending the Practice

After your check-in, consider:

  • Taking 3 deep belly breaths
  • Loosening tense areas (jaw, shoulders)
  • Adjusting posture for comfort
  • Drinking water to ground yourself

Why This Practice Matters for Financial Health

Regular body check-ins help:

  • Reduce financial anxiety
  • Improve communication during money talks
  • Reveal unconscious money patterns
  • Create space for mindful spending decisions
  • Foster financial self-awareness

Make this practice part of your financial routine for healthier money relationships and decisions.

BARI TESSLER

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